Combating Body Dysmorphia Caused by Cushing’s Disease
This week, I want to talk to you all about something that personally affects me. I know it also affects many others who currently suffer from Cushing’s disease and are in recovery.
This issue is called body dysmorphia. You may or may not have heard of it, but it is a mental disorder that plagues many people, not just Cushing’s patients.
If you haven’t heard of body dysmorphia, it describes when someone cannot stop obsessing over something about their body that they believe is “defective” or “flawed.” The disorder can become so bad that it causes people to avoid social gatherings altogether, and it can lead to extreme anxiety. To get a full understanding of the disorder, head over to the link here, where the Mayo Clinic describes the ins and outs of it all.
I used to believe that once I had surgery and started losing weight, I would be incredibly happy with myself. Life came knocking and told me it’s not that simple.
Yes, I’ve absolutely come a long way, and I make sure to acknowledge and understand that. But it doesn’t change the fact that I still have a tiny bit of a bigger stomach that’s taking a while to go down. It really upsets me, and it makes shopping for clothes and going out in public a nightmare.
As most of you know, Cushing’s causes weight gain, mainly in the abdominal area because of excess cortisol secretion. But the fat gain in our bodies is incredibly disproportionate. Before the extreme weight gain hit me, I was tiny (88 lbs.), and I never want to be back there again. But my body was proportionate. I was able to wear dresses and jeans with no problems. Now, whenever I put on a dress, it looks like a potato sack on me because of my gut, and jeans don’t fit properly because my gut is so much larger than my legs and bum. If you haven’t already guessed, those are the areas I obsess over and can’t stop. Every single day. No matter what.
People close to me tell me that it’s not that bad and that my weight has gone down tremendously. I thank them for the encouragement. But they aren’t the ones who have to go shopping with this body. I have to get shirts that are bigger because my gut is larger compared to my upper body, which results in my shirts falling off my shoulders. I also can’t wear jeans, as I stated above. I live in gym leggings and baggy shirts/tanks because of this.
The anxiety I face when invited out somewhere where I have to dress with more class is a nightmare. In the winter, I could get away with it, but now that the weather is warmer, it causes another level of anxiety. To others, I look great and they think I should go shopping more, but to me, I don’t belong in clothes that do not fit or suit me. Buying big sizes of cute clothes ends up not working because as such a petite woman — standing at only 5’3” — big clothing overwhelms my body and makes me look stumpy. It’s not a good look or feel for someone who loves fashion and style.
I have recently begun looking into therapy for this because it has taken over my life for too long. I cannot keep hiding in my room or in the house because I don’t fit properly in clothing. I deserve to live my life.
If you feel similar to the way I’m feeling, I’m here to tell you that you are most definitely not alone. You, too, deserve to live your life. It’s scary, it’s taxing on our minds, and it’s incredibly exhausting. Don’t be afraid to reach out for help from loved ones and get professional help, too. It’s not a “silly” thing you’ll just “get over.” Body dysmorphia is something that has treatment available through cognitive behavioral therapy and medication. This disorder is legitimate, and you deserve happiness.
The road to recovery for Cushing’s is so difficult, as we know, and our recovery has so many different layers that we need to focus on. Neglecting an issue because we feel others will think it’s minuscule is not fair to ourselves. We only end up hurting ourselves more in the long run. You’re worth all the help you need to seek. It won’t be easy, but I promise you it will be worth it.
Until next week!
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