Columns

You might’ve guessed it from my recent columns about parenthood, my limited posting on social media, or these headlines, but surprise, I’m pregnant! I had a frozen embryo transfer on June 4 and found out I was pregnant four days later. We wanted to keep it a secret…

The 1998 film “Sliding Doors” (spoiler alert) follows a woman, Helen, in two split timelines. In one, she catches her train home, finds her boyfriend cheating, starts her own business, and falls in love. In the other, she misses the train and, for a while, her life is…

When I’ve noted publicly that my husband and I are going through the process of in vitro fertilization, I’ve received a lot more backlash than expected. Some said they’d never try this hard to have a kid, while others mentioned that perhaps we shouldn’t bring children into this troubled world.

Moving to Michigan from New York with a chronic illness has been incredibly stressful. While I’m excited to have a house and be able to move around more freely, there have been lots of complications. Unpacking is exhausting, and it’s hard to feel unsettled and start over with a new…

Pride can be confusing for me. Yes, of course, I’m proud of my advocacy work. I’m proud of what my disability and my Cushing’s disease have led me to be. But as Disability Pride Month, celebrated in July, approached this year, I found myself feeling disconnected. Right now,…

I’m a huge believer in listening to my body’s cues. Whether I’m hungry, tired, thirsty, or bored, I love to hear my body out and give it what it needs. However, it’s not always that simple. While I want to trust my body, Cushing’s disease can wreak havoc, resulting…

As someone with Cushing’s disease, I respond incredibly poorly to heat. I can handle it in short bursts, but when the temperature is in the 80s or 90s F for weeks on end, I have a hard time regulating my body. Overheating is not only uncomfortable; it also leads…

Moving is always challenging, and getting used to a new neighborhood or city can be a little overwhelming. I’m writing this column while sprawled out in bed two weeks after I moved from New York to Michigan. Due to Cushing’s disease, my use of mobility aids, and the cost…

I’m currently in the process of frozen embryo transfer, which is usually the second half of an in vitro fertilization (IVF) cycle. Because I have both Cushing’s disease and polycystic ovary syndrome, having children naturally would’ve been a huge struggle, so my husband and I leaned into IVF. We…

I love the summer because June is Pride Month for the LGBTQ+ community and July is Disability Pride Month, two huge parts of who I am. For those of you who don’t know, I’m pansexual and genderqueer, with a preference for they/them pronouns. Cushing’s disease changed my body entirely.